12 QUESTIONS FOR
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In Marin / CURRENTS
1What’s your secret strategy? I teach self-revelation. Get hese kids to know themselves and teach them to articulate
their viewpoint and help others — simple to say, hard to do.
2How do you teach self-revelation? I have to be self- revelatory and talk about my absolute failures — not
the superficial sh*t, the really deep dark stuff that we all
live with. I want them to have an OMG moment and say,
“Revealing who I am didn’t kill me; it made me stronger.”
3Do you have go-to props? There is a great picture on the internet; I bring it in early on. It is of a Third Reich
crowd saluting Hitler in the ’30s, except for one guy who is in
the center with his arms folded. This is what I’m am trying to
teach the kids; be that one guy with the guts to say “no.”
5Has anything changed in 20 years? These days the kids are inundated with internet information; experiential stuff
is lacking. They go to a baseball game and are looking at their
phones. I try to have them invest in the notion of being in the
moment, in the court, in the classroom — show up personally.
6What is the importance of education in your life? My wife and kids are teachers. Education was so important to my
Holocaust-survivor immigrant parents that they moved into a
tenement apartment on 92nd and Madison so my siblings and I
could go to the excellent public school PS6 in New York City.
7Who’s your biggest influence? No question, my par- ents, going back to how as childhood sweethearts from
extremely wealthy families they escaped to opposite ends of
the U. S. while fleeing Hitler and later reunited. They started
over in New York, and my dad was sent to the front lines of
World War II. He came back a very liberal and compassionate
man and taught us the purpose of life is to help others.
8How did you become a lawyer? It’s a natural fit for me. You have to be in the moment. It’s like
playing basketball on the streets of New York City. It
doesn’t matter if you are fat, thin, gay, straight, white
or black, when you have the ball, you either pass or
take the shot. That is exactly what it’s like being in
court. It’s simple: focus and be a human being.
9Biggest challenges for your team? The pressure is enormous for a team that has won for two straight
decades. The current crop does not want to be the ones
who lose. So, my job is to relieve the pressure. Winning
is a by-product of having fun.
10Tricks to getting through to the kids? I have the advantage of not living with them; I don’t have all
that baggage and can communicate with them much easier.
Sometimes with parents, it’s not about that moment, but all
the moments that lead up to that moment.
11How do you deal with so-called affluenza? I am a big foe of the TMM disease — too much money; it is a
disability if not handled properly. It doesn’t have to be, but it
can be. What can happen with TMM is fear. Fear of exposing your kid to the real world, so you are overly protective
and want to do everything for them. You want them to have
everything, and what you are doing is cutting them off at the
knees and making them weak. When you are doing everything for your kids you are not letting them fail and develop
their own strengths and egos, and that’s what life is.
12What’s your biggest fear? Someday I walk into my courtroom and go against one of my former
students and lose badly. It hasn’t happened yet but it’s getting close — and they are really, really good litigators. m
Fueled by a passion for humanity, endorphins from his daily workouts and an obscene
amount of Diet Coke, David Vogelstein has been called an “outrageous cowboy for good,”
“counsel,” “coach,” and by most students, just plain “Vogie.” His mission: to make the
world a better place, one student at a time. By day he is a criminal justice
attorney based in Marin County, and for 150 evenings a year, he can be found
in a brightly lit classroom on the Tamalpais High School campus coaching the
30-person Mock Trial team. A brief Mock Trial primer for those who are unfamiliar: it’s a
team competition with 20 members playing different courtroom roles. The same case is
“tried” by all schools, and each team earns a number of points based on the performance of
all team members. The team with the most points wins. In the Mock Trial world, Vogelstein is
legendary; his Tam High team has won county competitions for more than 20 years. MIMI TOWLE